Sunday, July 11, 2010

Do you like me or don't you? Just tell me so I can get over you.

So Vince, the guy I've gone on 6 dates with now. Let's recap them:

#1 June 22nd: Met at the Family Fun Center, played some games, putt putt golf, more games, then watched a movie at my place.

#2 June 26th: He picked me up and we went to dinner and then movie at my place.

#3 June 30th: He picked me up, disc golf, dinner (I paid), movie at my place.

#4 July 6th: He picked me up, walked along Alki, dinner, walked back, dropped me off.

#5 July 9th: He picked me up, dinner (I paid), walked around Cornucopia Days, movie at my place.

#6 July 10th: He picked me up, dinner, disc golf, and he just dropped me off.

I really like this guy for the most part. There are a few minor things that irk me, but nothing serious in my opinion. More on that later. When I can get him to talk, he seems intelligent and open minded. (He was pretty quiet at first and is still a little, but not as bad.) Pretty gentlemanly, opens doors, picks me up (all my life I've been the driver for EVERYTHING is seems), usually pays, hopped a fence for me (I threw the frisbee over it...lol). He has a job (that he's had for 10 years!!!), a car, a dog he loves and friends. There are a lot of pluses about this guy. I think he's cute, cuter than the pics he sent me. Has a cute smile and pretty brown eyes. More than once he's randomly leaned over and kissed me while at a stoplight. Also will put his arm around me when walking sometimes. Random little kisses during disc golf. So good guy! Oh yeah, I keep thinking of more things I like about him! Good kisser ;) and he wrote me several long emails. Hasn't tried to rush me into bed. Hasn't even gotten anywhere near that and I like it!

Here are the few things that are a little annoying: hasn't thanked me when I've bought dinner, I don't think he's ever complimented me (but it's still early), not always great at getting back to my texts (SO MINOR), never asks me how my day was even after I asked him or other basic questions like that, doesn't know if he sees this as a "long-term" thing (HUGE BUMMER), and I think that's it.

So I really, really like him! By far one of the top 5 nicest guys I've ever dated. Maybe top 3 but I don't want to try and think about that now.

I'm trying to play it cooler than I usually do. Because I have an addictive personality and if I like something I usually get all obsessed about it. I DON'T want to be that girl.

So that is all the details I can think of to share at this time. :)